Some boys do feel forced into scouting, and in the church there is considerable pressure to become an eagle scout before your eighteenth birthday, regardless of how active they’ve been in scouting before that. It’s the subject of bishop interviews, random people will want to know the status of your eagle scout project, etc.

My father, who is an amazing scouter and silver-beaver recipient, quickly became the man that ward members would come to to force their children to earn their eagle scout award. He was very good at helping scouts, but the fact that he’d often get calls at 3 a.m. from panicked mothers who don’t think their son can get everything done on time demonstrates the kind of pressure being placed on some of these boys who just don’t care.

My answer in short is: No, hating boy scouting doesn’t make you a bad member. I just think you hate a particularly bad scouting program, leader, or hate the pressure to join scouting from people who know nothing about it, since that often happens in the LDS church.